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The Emotional Purchase

 It's no surprise that every now and then, things in life can get a little bit shaky (let alone apocalyptic). Sometimes, to get through ups and downs, people cope in different ways. Some choose venting, eating, gambling, doing drugs, drinking, taking prescribed medication ( or perhaps not prescribed), exercising (sigh) or....you guessed it! Shopping!!! Without any shadow of a doubt, I am 100% sure that this particular coping mechanism is exactly what got me into the financial mess I am in now. I have really only opened up about it to a few people and it was not easy. After losing my dad to addiction - a very serious one at that - It's apparent to me that different addictions receive different opinions from society. If companies are making money and people can justify that something is necessary to attain some sort of status - think overspending on a nice car or buying that "perfect outfit" for an event to "fit in" - then whatever that is is suddenly OK. But ...